Aquarian Age: Shifting the paradigm of Romantic Love to Union of Purpose

I am so excited by the not yet even thought possibilities that could emerge when individuals of a group give consent to merging their core together!

These reflections that I am about to expose (inspired by the way the Dagara tribe explain arranged marriage, relationships and the role of the community in it) were inconceivable concepts to me so far in my being as it would have make me feel loose my (illusory) sense of Self and would have make me feel to give my power away.

Now with the emergence of the dark at the core of a tribe, where trust isn't giving to the individual self anymore, neither to the individuals of a group but at the dark that is before, between and birth through the individual and the group, a concept like this, excites me, creates expansion and deep surrender in my being.

If I realise that my romantic partner choices are mostly influenced by personal wounds and conditioned collective ideals of romance then I know that I will manifest and repeat cycles of attractive dramatic illusions.

Body/mind attraction is based on a limited understanding of Eros as for hormonal attraction and emotional spin that is in need of an external polarity to create energy.

From that understanding, imagine I could give that choice of a partner to the group (that has a certain level of awareness and has the dark at the centre).

My tribe isn't blind to my personal wounds, is less inclined to be seduced by the romantic idea & has understood the direct impact of me relating intimately with one person on the whole group (drama VS purpose). #darkcommunity

This group/tribe/community like this knows that if they match 2 person together because of a shared life purpose, the whole group will benefit of this union, not only the 2 that are primarily concerned. The group gaze see with clarity where is the seed of purpose between two potential match that could be nourished and watered by their love and union.

Imagine how involving and inclusive it would be for a tribe to share the responsibility of the effects of 2 beings coming together, the potential of merging love and purpose.

So honestly, if I would to give you that choice for myself, with who would you match me?

I dare you to sincerely answer that question, because this isn't just a silly game, by answering, you actually take part in the responsibility for a potential union to be, you are saying "this is me".

Indeed as we transition into this new age of consciousness we must see shadows of groups coming up to surface, such as the group running personal and collective wounds through the power that is given is almost a "must mistake" between choosing from the individuals within the group to choosing from the dark core that is at the centre of a group.

Anyone that enters a "conscious relationship" nowadays is attempting to shift from a dramatic potential of relating attraction to a purpose driven partnership, though the process is long and painful and not many seeds survive more than few years.

We are still being hugely influenced by our body mind (hormones and emotional wounding) and collective plays (Archetypes / soul wounds).

This aquarian concept, could bring way faster results in term of merging love and purpose through group recognition within the individual and individual within the group as a collapsing of duality. As it's not anymore a trust in the individual self, neither in the group of individuals but trust for the dark that is at the centre.

Within the dark, even the concept of sovereignty and synergy collapses. There is no more choice for myself or choice for others. Meanwhile the dark arises fully an emerge at the centre there is lots of room for bypassing and personal and collective projections.

Note on Eros in an arranged union (arranged by the dark gaze through the group as opposed to choosen by your attraction/polarity): it would required a level of initiation from both individuals to know how to self generate Eros, a capacity to polarise yourself.

In fact this is what anyone that is in the sacred sexuality field is attempting to do but most often keep falling for the very tempting hormones and emotional wounds matching.

If 2 people with self sufficient and generated Eros come together, it means they have found ways within themselves to not only go beyond desires but to master Eros and use it as electricity (or fuel for God/divine purpose/ecstatic Reunion with sacredness).

If they come together they know how not to fall into the trap of desire and become slaves of Eros (or hormones or emotional wounds - because I feel that this is mainly what we believe Eros is throughout young initiates). They know how to bring Eros to serve purpose.

December 30th 2020